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Why women should care about Sexy Lingerie

  • Posted on April 22, 2012 at 2:37 pm

We get this same question from women a lot. “What is the point of sexy lingerie? I mean it’s just going to end up on the floor in two seconds anyways.”

You’d be surprised at how many women do not see the purpose of sexy lingerie. That is so sad to men everywhere. I know men don’t express their feeling much (if ever) and getting a man to be honest and open about sex is like trying to get a man to breast feed. They are just not built for it. The thing is men are not really emotional, men are more visual. Give a guy something pretty to look at and he goes nuts. It’s also a world men are not allowed into. There is NO male equivalent to sexy lingerie. Maybe Six-Pack Ab but that is another rant…. A long and delicious rant…….

Let me just wrap up this point. Sexy Lingerie is mental foreplay for guys. Guys do not operate on this level normally. They tend to just go from zero to 60 in 2 seconds and then it’s sexy time. Getting him all twisted up inside and letting him know it’s coming but he has to be patient is something guys love but don’t know they love. The thrill of the chase, the anticipation, the fantasy and all the naughty thoughts running thru his head. That is the point of Sexy Lingerie and why all women should care.

For all the ladies who say that it just ends up the floor in two seconds anyways so who cares, I say you are doing it wrong. Lingerie started as practical undergarments. It was meant to be worn everyday under your normal clothes. Sexy Lingerie was just the fancy stuff you worn on special occasions. It wasn’t so much about the clothes or the fabric, it was about the effort. Guys would go nuts when he knew his woman put on special underwear for him. She wanted sex too and she wanted him to know. Today, the purpose of sexy lingerie is no different. Waiting to put it on until you are about to have sex is a waste of half of it’s power. The best use of lingerie is when it’s worn in situations that are NOT sexy time. Wear it to work but make sure you flash your guy a little peek as you walk out the door. He will go NUTS!! Try a garterbelt and stockings along with a short skirt that just barely flashes the top of your stockings whens you want it and wear to out for a dinner with friends or even family. Wear a corset to a company Christmas party make sure to flash him a peek every so often. Best Christmas ever! Point is, if you wait to start the foreplay until you are already in the bedroom you missed half the fun! Tell your guy you are going shopping for a couple hours and then show him the goods. Walk right out that door and know that you have him wrapped around your finger from the second the door closes. He will be foaming at the mouth by the time you get home. I don’t care if he is 18 or 80, that works every time!

So, go get some sexy lingerie. Put it on and let the fun begin. I think you’ll see why you should care about sexy lingerie!

Big Spring Lingerie Sale on now at Cute N Kinky Lingerie

Huge ‘Get Kinky’ Sale

  • Posted on March 14, 2012 at 4:52 pm

The Kinky Stuff is having and huge ‘Get Kinky‘ Sale right now. They dropped the price on tons of hot leather and vinyl lingerie and gear. This is your chance to save a bunch of cash on leather corsets, vinyl teddies, sexy  leather bras and garter belts, dresses, collars, whips, restraints and so much more! This sale ends soon so hurry the get some kinky stuff for cheap. Visit www.thekinkystuff.com right now!

Trina’s Clubwear Relaunch!

  • Posted on March 8, 2012 at 11:23 pm

Trina’s Clubwear has announced a new Relaunch of their website. It’s completely new, even the clubwear is all brand new! It looks pretty hot and the new 2012 line is really sexy. Please go check it out, we think you’ll like it. www.trinasclubwear.com

Cute N Kinky’s Spring Preview Weekend

  • Posted on March 8, 2012 at 11:12 pm

This weekend Cute N Kinky will be giving everyone a chance to get a sneak peek at their new 2012 Spring Lingerie Collection. It will be about 2 more week before the full line is available but many of their hot new styles are in early. This weekend only they are on sale and ready for you. Why not stop by to see all the new, sexy lingerie they have at Cute N Kinky Lingerie

The History of the Corset

  • Posted on March 8, 2012 at 11:04 pm

History Of Corsets, early french corsetCorsets were originally quilted waistcoats, worn by French women as an alternative to stiff corsets. They were only quilted linen, laced in the front, and un-boned. This garment was meant to be worn on informal occasions, while stays were worn for court dress. In the 1790s, stays fell out of fashion. This development coincided with the French Revolution, and the adoption of neoclassical styles of dress. Interestingly, it was the men, Dandies, who began to wear corsets. The fashion persisted thorough the 1840s, though after 1850 men who wore corsets claimed they needed them for “back pain”.The corset has been erroneously attributed to Catherine de’ Medici, wife of King Henry II of France. She enforced a ban on thick waists at court attendance during the 1550s. For nearly 350 years, women’s primary means of support was the corset, with laces and stays made of whalebone or metal.

The corset has undergone many changes. The corset was originally known as stays in the early 16th century. It was a simple bodice with tabs at the waist, stiffened by horn, buckram, and whalebone. The center front was further reinforced by a busk made of ivory, wood, or metal. It was most often laced from the back, and was, at first, a garment reserved for the aristocracy.

Edwardian CorsetStays took a different form in the 18th century, whalebone began to be used more, and there was more boning used in the garment. The shape of the stays changed as well. The stays were low and wide in the front, while in the back they could reach as high as the upper shoulder. Stays could be strapless or use shoulder straps. The straps of the stays were attached in the back and tied at the front sides.

The purpose of 18th century stays was to support the bust, confer the fashionable conical shape while drawing the shoulders back. At this time, the eyelets were reinforced with stitches, and were not placed across from one another, but staggered. This allowed the stays to be spiral laced. One end of the stay lace is inserted and knotted in the bottom eyelet, the other end is wound through the stays’ eyelets and tightened on the top. Tight-lacing was not common in this time period, and indulged in only by the very fashionable. Stays were worn by women in all societal levels, from ladies of the court to street vendors.

At this time, there were two other variants of stays, jumps, which were looser stays with attached sleeves, like a jacket, and corsets.

Victorian Style CorsetStays went away in the late 18th century, but the corset remained. Corsets in the early 19th century lengthened to the hip, the lower tabs replaced by gussets at the hip. Room was made for the bust in front with more gussets, and the back lowered. The shoulder straps disappeared in the 1840s for normal wear.

In the 1820s, fashion changed again, with the waistline lowered back to almost the natural position. Corsets began to be made with some padding and boning. Corsets began to be worn by all classes of society. Some women made their own, while others bought their corsets. Corsets were one of the first mass produced garments for women. Corsets began to be more heavily boned in the 1840s. By 1850, steel boning became popular.

With the advent of metal eyelets, tight lacing became possible. The position of the eyelets changed, they were now situated across from one another at the back. The front was now fastened with a metal busk in front. Corsets were mostly white. The corsets of the 1850s-1860s were shorter than the corsets of the 19th century through 1840s. This was because of a change in the silhouette of women’s fashion. The 1850s and 60s emphasized the hoopskirt. After the 1860s, when the hoop fell out of style, the corset became longer to mold the abdomen, exposed by the new lines of the princess or cuirass style.

During the Edwardian period, the straight front corset (also known as the S-Curve corset) was introduced. This corset was straight in front, with a pronounced curve at the back that forced the upper body forward, and the derrière out. This style was worn from 1900-1908.

The corset reached its longest length in the early 20th century. The longline corset at first reached from the bust down to the upper thigh. There was also a style of longline corset that started under the bust, and necessitated the wearing of a brassiere. This style was meant to complement the new silhouette. It was a boneless style, much closer to a modern girdle than the traditional corset. The longline style was abandoned during World War I.

The corset fell from fashion in the 1920s in Europe and North America, replaced by girdles and elastic brassieres, but survived as an article of costume. Originally an item of lingerie, the corset has become a popular item of outerwear in the fetish, BDSM and goth subcultures. In the fetish and BDSM literature, there is often much emphasis on tightlacing, and many corset makers cater to the fetish market.

Modern Lingerie CorsetOutside the fetish community, living history re-enactors and historic costume enthusiasts still wear corsets according to their original purpose, to give the proper shape to the figure when wearing historic fashions. In this case, the corset is underwear rather than outerwear. Skilled corset makers are available to make reproductions of historic corset shapes, or to design new styles.

There was a brief revival of the corset in the late 1940s and early 1950s, in the form of the waist cincher sometimes called a “waspie”. This was used to give the hourglass figure dictated by Christian Dior’s ‘New Look’. However, use of the waist cincher was restricted to haute couture, and most women continued to use girdles. This revival was brief, as the New Look gave way to a less dramatically-shaped silhouette.

Since the late 1980s, the corset has experienced periodic revivals, which have usually originated in haute couture and which have occasionally trickled through to mainstream fashion. These revivals focus on the corset as an item of outerwear rather than underwear. The strongest of these revivals was seen in the Autumn 2001 fashion collections and coincided with the release of the film Moulin Rouge!, the costumes for which featured many corsets as characteristic of the era. Another fashion movement which has renewed interest in the corset is the Steampunk culture, which utilizes late-Victorian fashion shapes in new ways.

Modern BustierAlthough often confused with a corset, the bustier is a separate style unto itself. The big difference is the cups for the breasts. Corsets only have bulges for the breast or are cut below the breast. A true corset will never have under wires, ever!

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

  • Posted on February 7, 2012 at 6:15 pm

It’s almost valentine’s day and we’d like to offer a guide to those thinking of getting a sexy gift for your lover this year. First thing to do is HURRY! If you are buying online you should know that many shipping deadlines are Feb 7th for ground shipping. Sites like Cute N Kinky and Nawty Lingerie are offering Free Ground Shipping on orders over $50. Other sites like Naughty Wife Lingerie and Feel Sexy Lingerie have specials on expedited shipping if you spend between $100 and $150.

That’s great you say but what should I buy? That is going to depend on your lover and their taste. If you know she is into some really hot, kinky or fetish lingerie then go for it! Get a leather corset or something wild like that. If you aren’t sure what to get it’s best to play it safe. Get something you are sure will go over well. This is really not a great time for new couples to experiment. Playing it safe is usually a better idea. If you have been together for several years and know each other pretty well maybe you can push the envelope a bit. Time to explore a fantasy or share a fetish? Perhaps, but go slow and give your lover time to get used to new ideas.  For new couples a Chemise or Babydoll is always a good gift idea. They are cute, sexy and not form fitting usually. If you aren’t sure about size it’s best to get something that fits more of a ‘range’ like these items do. Corsets, bras, teddies and such are pretty snug by design so they have to be the right size.

On the subject of size, DO YOUR HOMEWORK! Getting the wrong size is a tragic mistake and can really get you in trouble. Too small and your lady can feel over weight or like you wish she was thinner. Too large and she think you see her as huge. Either will not get you laid! Do some snooping but do not get caught. Getting caught going through her underwear drawer will not get you laid either. Actually it might but that is a topic for another day. Find a bra size. That will help the most. Next best is a pants size and a dress size. Get a few as they can vary be manufacture. If she wears a 6 then take that and use it to show you want lingerie size that correlates to. This sizing chart may help a bit too.

Finally, a sexy gift is not just one sided. Ladies, get something sexy for yourself and surprise your lover with a Nawty romp after your date! Let’s face it, this was the point of everything up to this point, right? Why not show them they did good and give them a great night of passion and pleasure.

We hope this guide to Valentine’s Gift giving has been helpful. Now get something fast, before it’s too late!

Welcome To Nawty Bytes

  • Posted on February 3, 2012 at 9:12 am

We are launching NawtyBytes today. Stay tuned for plenty of great , nawty fun coming soon!